If we're so enduring about doing what's best for kids, communities, their character, our character, and the culture, I have to believe that what you "hear" can hurt you. At the very least...embarrass!

One of these days, maybe Stephen A. and others offended by almost everything will let us know when it's OK to speak truthfully and when it isn't. But until then, coaches owe it to every prospect they coach...to have their assessments, and their word, trusted by those who hold the reins in the National Football League.

60 points on your last day on the job is impressive, and 20 years with the same team is unheard of. But I'd think a lot differently about Kobe's last game as a Laker if there hadn't been so many other days in between.

If you want to be at the big game you're going have to pay for it. But, what's it worth to you, and more importantly, why?